of Lifestyle Dominance and BDSM Eroticism in Prose and Poetry.
Have you felt the urge to experience the submissiveness of your
nature, or, perhaps your mate has asked for your submission?
Becoming a slave
is not an end, it is more aptly a new beginning.
for submitting as a slave to your mate must be your own. Most
slaves prefer to be the property of one Master, much as a wife
literally belonged to her husband in ages past. For a few slaves,
however, their adventurous spirit requires the pleasure and excitement
of serving more than one Master. It does not matter which type
you become, since all can find happiness in this world, and in
turn bring happiness to their Masters. The most important thing
for you is which lifestyle will bring happiness to you. Women
usually find that by bringing more happiness to their men they
in turn bring more happiness to their feminine souls.
Does being a
slave make you in any way less than 'normal' ? Indeed not. Rather,
we know that within you is far more. You have opened yourself
to new possibilities. You have committed yourself to your mate
with more confidence and enthusiasm. Your intensity and passion
can fire your relationship far longer than a normal lover's. Few
women have a man with the power and passion that slaves do."
Many men desire this, and
many women desire to be posessed as well, but still, few dare
to bring it to reality. However, our sexuality and emotional needs
are very complex, and there are many patterns and variations.
For example, there are also men who desire to submit and emerse
themselves in their love for a woman, and there are women who
desire to possess men. All of these relationships can work given
the right circumstances."
is someone who has willingly taken a vow of submission and obedience
to their mate. Their slavery is not coerced, nor are they held
forcibly by an oppressive social or legal system. Indeed, the
world around them guarantees their freedom to turn away from their
mate and seek another life -- and yet they choose to live in a
private world in which they are truly a slave to their mate.
All relationships are different because all people are different,
but underlying our individual differences we share many things.
In mate-slavery both partners are reaching beyond ordinary social
facades and striving to meet their needs through the other in
a way 'normal' relationships cannot. Does this make mate-slavery
better? Perhaps, but not necessarily. There is much potential
power there, and if used wisely it can forge a bond of great strength
between two people.
Nothing in life is without
risks, but mate-slavery is especially rewarding in these days
of separate incomes, easy divorces, and separate lifestyles. Slavery
can bring a greater level of support and security to the woman,
more rewards to the man, and a higher level of excitement to the
I repeat, Nothing is without
risks, but mate-slavery can bring great rewards if you risk it.
couple is indeed blessed. Of course, what I have said are idealisations,
and we know the reality in our lives falls short of the ideals
which guide it. Still, a woman living as a slave enjoys a rare
opportunity. One which you might miss."
Open the book -- the book which has been written to capture the
meaning of my life -- and read . . .
A Slave's Morning Salutation
Prayer for Master and Slave